Youth Problems

Dear dr. Sadiq, I have a problem and I really want you to look at it from a realistic view. I am a 20- year old man and getting so many problems to delay my marriage, mainly financial problems. I tried every possible means to give up masturbation, but in vain. I am around a very difficult situation and so many haram things are grabbing me away from the halal into the haram. Please tell me how to solve my problem.

As-Salamu Alaykum, I would like to know how to deal with my oldest son due to the fact that he has started to make trouble at school, when I say trouble I mean that he was in his first fight to prove to the new kids(he is in a new school) that he is "worthy" as he puts it and none should fear the bully he fought with. I would like to know if this is a normal course of growing up as a male or she I be cautious? Thank u so much.

Is it acceptable to give gifts to my Muslim female colleagues as a sign of respect and friendship?

Dear dr. Sadiq, I have a problem and I really want you I am a Muslim lady who graduated last year. I got married to a young man who is not older than me very much. I love my husband very much but the problem is that he likes me to say sexual words to him at the time of sex but I am too shy to do so, how can I please my husbandto look at it from a realistic view.

I got acquainted with a young man but did not meet him. I really fell in love with him and he also did love me! I said to him that no way but marriage! Now! I am married to another person but still I love him! Ii do not see him and never know anything about him, just love him! am I sinful? Do I betray my husband!

What do you say about Muslim youth chatting with one another through the Internet just for spreading Islam. But this may lead to love affairs?

Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl. It has been a year since I graduated from an American High School. In the past year, I've gone through so many things. I was far away from Islam and was influenced greatly by the American culture. I wanted to leave my country and attend university, but God did not will. All my friends have gone. I felt so isolated and alone. Until recently I do believe that everything happens for a reason. I started gaining faith in Allah again. I need guidance from someone to help me through this

Dear scholar, in the light of the title of this dialogue, there are many problems facing Muslim youth, part of which is identity. How do you think Muslim youth nowadays can preserve their identity, in the face of all forms of corruption surrounding him?

Dear dr. Sadiq, I have a problem and I really want you I am a Muslim lady who graduated last year. I got married to a young man who is not older than me very much. I love my husband very much but the problem is that he likes me to say sexual words to him at the time of sex but I am too shy to so, how can I please my husbandto look at it from a realistic view. I am a 20- year old man and getting so many problems to delay my marriage, mainly financial problems. I tried every possible means to give up masturbation, but in vain. I am around a very difficult situation and so many haram things are grabbing me away from the halal into the haram. Please tell me how to solve my problem.

Now, I'm sevently four years old. I embraced Islam one and half years back. Alhamdulillah, I performed Haj last year. I'm sorry to say that I have little weak points such as watching TV. not listening to my son-inlaw at times. But I know that he loves me and I too love him. Please advise on the above issues.