Improving communication between husband and wife

What is the best way to deal with a stubborn wife?

My wife is a lovely woman who has given me four children and we have been very close. Until recently when her younger sister came to leave with us she has changed and now hid everythickg she does from me but shearing everythickg with her sister. I feel neglected in the house and told her but she see nothickg wrong in that. I’m too jealous please advise.

Assalamu`alykum Dr. Sadiq, my problem with my wife is that she does not listen to me at all. Whenever we talk about something, it is either black and white for her. Whenever I do something she does not like, she does not even ask why and how, she right away jumps to conclusion and most likely the answer is black. I tried many times to tell her that she should wait and ask why I am doing so and so, but she always gets upset and stops talking. I love my wife and she does love me, but this part does spoil sometimes love. Any suggestions?

As-Slamu`Alaykum, I recently got engaged. The problem is that we always tend to end up with disagreements over small issues. Mostly it has to do with Islamic rulings. I try to talk about something different but it ends in argument. I don't know what to do? Is it ok to have second thoughts about this person now? Or should I try to work this out somehow? I'm very confused even after doing istikharah. Your opinion would mean a lot to me. JazakAllah khair for you time.

As-Slamu`Alaykum, I find it difficult to forgive my husband for being a bit too friendly with other women, even when it is completely innocent. I will bring this up whenever we fight. He says that to him he is just being polite and in another case he said it is because the lady was making a spectacle of herself and he is just egging her on to see how far she would go. Also, it was also because we were at a gathering and I was paying too much attention to another lady friend and none to him. I do not like this kind of behavior as this is not what I expect of a husband. I used to be quite gregarious myself but toned myself down for his sake. Also we rarely see each other due to our careers, and this has made me distrust him even more. What can I do? Thank you in advance for your help.

What should I do, I am very happy with my husband but he calls me most of the time with ugly names and I don't like it and he also talks bad about my parents and some times very bad things and when I say to him don't do that then he says if you don't like me to tell the truth go to them and take our son with you. Please help me and tell me what to do.

I always tell my husband not to get mad in front of kids as this might affect their emotions and make them think bad about us, but he likes to do it all the time; he even says sometimes "no, let them hear and see that you have done wrong" though we fight over minor issue. I want to seek your advice in two things: 1. How can I make my husband talk without losing temper? 2. How can we resolve issues privately while he doesn't care of letting kids know about our differences?

I am married for about 4 years. We have a kid. But my heart is totally broken for the unlawful behavior of my wife. I am a Muslim and want to live accordingly. But my wife is a problematic person, the least I can say about her. The problem with her that she easily falls in love with men. Immediately after my marriage she fell in love with a married person who is a close relative of mine. I had to bear severe family problems for that and I became sick. Everyone of my family noticed that. Last year I went to a village where she fell in love with a non sophisticated guy. The problem with her that she makes eye contact with guys whom she like. This is very disturbing as the person may get a wrong signal. I am trying to rectify her. But how long can I keep barrier to her movement outside. I may be required to go in a western country very shortly for several years and my wife should accompany me. But there she may create more problems and may hinder my life. I have thought about divorce, but I love my kid very much. I think it is her psychological problem as her grooming up was not proper. I am a very creative man in my , but now totally frustrated, disheartened. Give me some suggestion in the Islamic way please.

As-Slamu`Alaykum, I am pregnant for 4weaks or so my husband does not want me to tell my mother until it' born and I know that if I do that my mother will argue with and I don't like to be in a vute with anyone in my family and I don't like to lie. What should I do?

As-Slamu`Alaykum, How can I explain to my wife that she's ordered to obey my commands? I always tell her that Islam works from a logical sense but the 'obeying' of one's husband doesn't make sense to her. How can I tell her that she has to listen to me?

Who should initiate wife or Husband if there is any communication gap?

Could you explain the role that magic and Satan may have in causing conflict between a husband and a wife?

This is oum o. reacting on the answer of the scholar I don't need help but the reason why I say that I am happy now is that when he says that things he says that he is saying the truth and he also says that he would do the same thing about even his own parents if he founds something bad on them he has all his life 30years now went to college to learn about Islam so he says that he knows perfectly better then anyone the Islam. If he says so am I a 21 years old women ho is born and raised in Belgium good enough to say otherwise.

Who should initiate wife or Husband if there is any communication gap.